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March 6, 2025

What Men and Women Can Teach Each Other About Investing

In Investments, Wealth Strategy, Women and Wealth

Investing is both an art and a science, shaped by our life experiences, personalities, and preferences. But did you know that research reveals some notable trends in how men and women approach investing differently? Understanding these differences can help all investors, regardless of gender, strike a more effective balance in their financial strategies.

Key Gender Differences in Investing

  1. Trading Activity:
    Men tend to trade more frequently, sometimes treating investing like a competition. Unfortunately, higher trading activity often results in lower long-term returns due to increased costs and market timing errors. Women, by contrast, are more likely to “stay the course,” logging into their accounts less often and trading less frequently. While this patience can yield better results, it’s essential to ensure portfolios are rebalanced and aligned with changing goals over time.
  2. Risk Tolerance:
    Men are generally more comfortable with aggressive investments, while women often prefer more conservative strategies. Striking the right balance is key: overly cautious portfolios may not deliver the growth needed for long-term goals, while excessive risk-taking can lead to unnecessary losses.
  3. Confidence and Overconfidence:
    Both men and women can fall prey to overconfidence, but men are often more susceptible. This belief in one’s ability to outperform the market can lead to mistakes. On the other hand, women sometimes underestimate their investing knowledge, which may cause hesitation to act but also encourages seeking professional advice.
  4. Seeking Advice:
    Women are more likely than men to consult financial advisors, which can enhance decision-making and long-term outcomes. However, research suggests women feel less confident paying for financial advice, highlighting the importance of clear communication and personalized strategies from advisors.
  5. Discussing investments:
    Since men are more likely to be trading-oriented, they also generally discuss trading more with friends, colleagues, and family. Women tend to be hesitant to discuss investments. A level of comfort with asking questions is a great way to learn about and gain confidence in investing. It helps to understand that investing can be very personalized; there is never just one right answer.

Bridging the Gap: Building the Best of Both Worlds

Investors can benefit by combining the best traits from each approach:

  • Embrace Patience: Avoid overtrading and focus on long-term goals, but don’t neglect periodic portfolio reviews.
  • Understand Risk: Assess your risk tolerance and balance it with the need for growth to achieve your financial goals.
  • Seek Guidance: Partner with trusted professionals who align their strategies with your objectives and preferences.
  • Trust but Verify: Review your investments holistically and don’t cherry pick what worked well when assessing your returns or pay much attention to people who only talk about their “wins.” Remember that past performance is not a guarantee of future results.
  • Focus on your hurdle rate: If you’ve created a financial plan, focus on what kind of long-term return you need to make it successful (i.e. your personal hurdle rate), instead of only maximizing or chasing returns.

A Wealth Shift to Women

Women are becoming key players in wealth management, with trends showing significant asset transfers to women through inheritance, resulting in increasing financial independence. As primary decision-makers, their unique challenges — such as longer life expectancy and higher healthcare costs — require tailored advice and strategies.

Historically, the investment industry has been dominated by men who have made up the majority of fund managers, traders, and advisors. That has been shifting as the wealth management industry professionalizes and shifts away from stock picking to more holistic and comprehensive planning. It is now widely accepted that investing is only part of the path to successful personal finance, not the whole pie.

Conclusion

At Coldstream, we believe in empowering all clients to make informed, confident investment decisions. By recognizing and celebrating the unique strengths men and women bring to investing, we can help you achieve a balanced, effective financial strategy tailored to your goals.

 

*Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards Inc. owns the certification marks CFP® and Certified Financial Planner™ in the U.S. The CFA Institute owns the certification marks CFA® and Chartered Financial Analyst®.

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